Happy New Years Hotmoms!
I hope you had a wonderful holiday and have your goals written down and ready to make some big things happen in 2018! For the past 4 weeks, I’ve spent some quality time with my young nephews and my mother. It’s been a long time since I’ve had little people in my house for an extended period of time and they have surely kept me on my toes :)! They have been a blast and I’m so blessed to have been able to spend this quality time with them! But in the midst of entertaining, preparing lunches and wiping running noses, I remembered that I still had to make time to sit down and focus on my goals for 2018!!
Having my nephews with me reminded me of the times when I was a new entrepreneur and business owner trying to figure how to get everything done and be perfect at all of it. Luckily, I am a different person now and haven’t ran around like a chicken with my head cut off trying to have all of the laundry done, no dishes in the sink, breakfast/lunch/dinner on deck at precisely the same time, make everyone happy, reading books instead of video games and movies—I have mastered the concept of not thinking that I am or have to be the “perfect mom”. I can’t describe the feeling I get when I can comfortably walk out of the front door sometimes with household chores incomplete because I know that I can finish this task at another time. Learning to manage your life as a mother has nothing to do with being perfect, nothing to do with “balance” but everything to do with prioritizing your life according to what’s best for you and your family and figuring out how to make that happen on your terms without succumbing to mommy guilt and societal pressures.
This year, I am so excited to be launching my new moms-only club, The Hotmoms Life Club. This club was created so that moms no longer have to feel that they have to choose between being a mother or living their dreams. You’ll be surrounded by a group of mothers who support mothers on their journey to being their best them NOW not LATER!! Visit our updated website www.hatsofftomothers.com to find out more information about The Hotmoms Life Club and see how you can join our motherhood movement!!
We are also having our inaugural Success Vision Board Party on Feb. 3, 2018 to celebrate our successes and complete vision boards to stay focused on our goals in 2018! You can register online for the event at www.hatsofftomothers.com.
I look forward to seeing you soon!!
YaSheema, The Hotmoms Life